You are not alone

Need help?

“When you are feeling lost… you have to remember the strongest, most powerful thing you can do is ask for help”.

It can be really hard as a guy to open up, especially when things are tough and there seems no way out. But with the right help, you can get your life back on track – and help is always available.

Need help fast?

In an emergency , if you or someone else is experiencing a severe mental health crisis, has seriously injured themselves or is on the point of doing so, act immediately.

Emergencies
Call 999 or go to A&E

For any life-threatening emergency.

Don’t hesitate, your life matters.

Urgent help
Call 111 open 24hrs

Not a 999 emergency but need urgent help. They’ll assess how you’re feeling and connect you with the right support.

Urgent GP appointment

Contact your GP and ask for an urgent appointment. Not sure what to say? Doc Ready can help you prepare.

Other support routes

FOR Anyone

Someone you trust

Talking to a friend, family member, or someone close to you is often the most important first step. Let them know how you’re really feeling.

FOR Anyone

Your GP

Your GP can assess your needs and refer you to the right services. Use Doc Ready to help prepare for your visit if you’re nervous about explaining things.

FOR Under 18

CAMHS

The Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service is here for under-18s. Ask your GP for a referral, or in many areas you can self-refer directly. In BaNES or Wiltshire? More info & self-referral >

FOR Over 18

NHS Adult Mental Health Services

If you’re 18 or over and your difficulties have been going on for a while and affecting your life, NHS Adult Mental Health Services may be the right fit. Your GP can help refer you.

Childline offers free, private and confidential advice by phone, email or 1-2-1 counsellor chat.

Young Minds offers practical advice, information and help finding support.

The mix is for under 25’s, offering 1-2-1 counsellor support, support groups, community boards and peer chat.

Papyrus is for help and advice, including HOPELINE247 – free, confidential space to talk to trained advisors about thoughts of suicide.

CALM offers information and support including the CALMZone app and helpline.

Kooth is free, safe, anonymous support for anyone aged 13+.

Girls Mind Too:

Why this work is important for girls and young women

We recognise that there are a growing number of girls and young women who are struggling with their mental health and our focus on boy’s mental health is not intended to dismiss this very troubling trend. However, boys have told us that accessing help and support can present particular challenges for them as a result of unhelpful gender stereotypes, hence our focus on boys and young men.

Girls and women of all ages tell us that this work is important for a number of reasons: –

  • They have male family members and friends who struggle to express themselves when they have a problem or who don’t seek support
  • They see the effects on male behaviour when feelings and emotions are bottled up
  • They are concerned about the high male suicide rate
  • They feel that the messages being given out are applicable to girls and young women as well as boys and young men
  • They also feel that the films and other resources pave the way to more general conversations about gender-stereotyping and conditioning of girls as well as boys

Asking for help is the bravest thing you can do

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It's been updated in spring 2026 to better reflect the breadth of our work.